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What You Should Do If Your Partner Hides Their Phone From You
Determine whether your partner is for real or a cheat.
If your partner’s phone has a password and he doesn’t want you to know about it, that’s a red flag. You will undoubtedly be astonished and suspect that something is not quite right. Isn’t it? It is as though you are off-limits to his personal life when he treats you like that.
Instead of calming you down, hearing him declare, I want to invoke my right of privacy, will undoubtedly enrage you to beast mode.
Right?
The following scene will most likely be a war, definitely not a minor brawl.
If you are married, you and your partner live as one. Therefore everything your partner possesses is also yours, and vice versa. In your view, if your spouse insisted on using that line — the right of privacy, in your mind for sure- you’d want to give him a solid beating.
I am not saying that setting a password on your phone is a terrible idea. There is a lot of sensitive information that can get from you– including your identity. Therefore, it is a must to protect it.
And if you ever lose your phone (which I hope never happens), your personal information, such as usernames and passwords for sites where you have an account, could be exposed and stolen. If you don’t have a security measure in place, even your bank money will vanish in the blink of an eye.
You could lose more than just your money. Someone could even steal your identity. If others log into your Facebook account, you give evil people the opportunity to steal your identity, and eventually, it would get you into a bad light. If you have conversations saved on your messenger, perpetrators can access it if stolen and deceive people close to you.
But my point is, it is a different story when you do not have his phone access. Even if he claims that it is private — remaining secretive will not benefit your bond ship.
Why would he need to conceal his password if he is not breaking any rules in your relationship?
